Love and Shiny Things

Humans need emotional connection. Without connection, there is no love, there is no friendship and there is no bonding that ties people together. Often humans may be attracted to a certain trait to someone that draws them to a person, but often, that trait, will not, and cannot sustain a relationship. If there is no emotional connection, a relationship is doomed to failure.

People may like someone, love someone, for a certain thing that helped them establish a deeper relationship, but that first connection, is not usually an emotional connection. With an emotional connection, it is the thing that will define a relationship, whether it will last or fail.

As human beings we long to have a meaningful connection to someone. It’s interesting, there was case of a woman who was absolutely torn, because she couldn’t understand why her husband had an affair with another woman. Another woman who wasn’t nearly as stunning as her. It turns out, simply put, she was an ice queen. Although, the other woman was not as beautiful as this woman, her husband was able to connect with this other woman.

Why humans long for this connection would be, because we are more heart than head. If the heart is happy, the head will be so. Often the head will make the decisions from the beginning, but once the heart is truly involved, the head will lose against the heart.

A lot of decisions, as humans will be made by our heart. If there is no emotional connection to another person, the heart will not be satisfied. And if the heart is not satisfied, there is not heart, literally and figuratively speaking. 

So what can be learnt really is this, you don't have to be anything or want anything from a person, as long as you can find someone you have an emotional connection. You don't have to worry about looks, you don't have to worry about  many things. You just have to really worry about one thing only, do we have a connection that can enable us to talk for hours or spend time with another person in just comfortable silence. 

If any relationship is to succeed, despite the benefits or shiny things that someone may bring to the table whether it be: sex, looks, talents. It cannot compare to emotional connection. If you want to truly know who are the people you really want in your life, it is those who you have an emotional connection to.