You're The Judge, Oh No!

Judging other humans is a very human thing. Also, it is a very stupid thing. Comments like,”She's a slut” or “Your fat” could be very true. Nevertheless, people usually know their own failings, and some wish they didn't. Either way, judging is a waste of breath and destructive. It's cruel to announce something that may be true and calmly announcing that's all they are. Yes, in some cases we will need to judge. However, not everyone is an actual judge or is someone actually doing their civil duties. Most of the time someone is making some stupid comment.

Howbeit, don't make those stupid comments. Think, before you say, don't judge so harshly, and if you must, try let kindness at least seep in your words. It's amazing how you can rebuke a person, but do it in such a matter that they are better for it. And not weaker or hurt by it.

So instead of judging someone, try talking to them, if it bothers you so much, help them till it stops bothering you. If you don't like poor people and homeless people, don't tell them that, help them. If you don't like someone for what they are, help them. But make sure you don't start just flapping that pie hole, it usually doesn't really help them. In this case, action speaks louder then words. Lastly, with judging people, honestly, just mind your own business.