Loneliness, the Ache, that You Can't Bake a Cake With

Loneliness is a feeling that has dwelled in every man and woman on this planet. While not a very serious problem if taken in small quantities or if not taken regularly; Nevertheless, it is a kick in the guts. Like a knife twisting in the very soul of one's being. Loneliness cares neither for age, sex, culture, or social activity. It will attack indiscriminately. No man, woman, child, or even animal is free from it's deathly like touch. However, the great lonely can be fought. In the following you will be taught fair and even dirty tactics to fight loneliness. As it has been said before,”All fair in love and war." While not the former but rather the latter, it is truly so here.

Loneliness, it's a mixture of emotions, mental, and soul that causes one to feel lonely. Loneliness has nothing really to do with physical surroundings. Rather that loneliness, has to do in the strictest form of how you are connecting with other people. You can still be lonely and be in a crowd.

Furthermore, loneliness doesn’t just have to do with being with people, you can be alone and not lonely. Loneliness is nothing about your surroundings. Certain things may help but it's not always the case. It's just a dark path you walk. However, that doesn't mean all is loss, you just have to learn what works for you to kick it.

With loneliness, it should be realized why you are lonely. Have a look at it. Is it because you have no one to talk to, is it because you have isolated yourself, or is it because you cannot stand being by yourself? Whatever the reason you should find the cause, the root of a problem. Often at times when trying to solve a problem people will find that it's a by product of something deeper. Find the cause not the symptom.

In closing, loneliness is an issue, it's unhealthy and it hurts.Nevertheless, if you are feeling lonely do something about. Got out, doing something different, talk to someone you never met, join a club, if you do have friends or family that you trust, tell them how you feel and ask them to get you out of your shell when your feeling down. Whatever it be, human interaction and a healthy social life is very important. Furthermore, if that's not your case and you do have a lot of social activity, it could be that you're not connecting truly well with people. Everyone needs that someone they can truly connect to. Lastly if your feeling lonely because you can't tell anyone, don't believe that lie. Loneliness is not a sign of being a loser, it's something that everyone goes through. If your feeling lonely because you feel that way, here's a tip for you. Every time you go to a mirror smile. It may sound ridiculous, but it works. Plus, it releases healthy hormones into your body when you smile. So, don't let loneliness win, take the first swing before it does. Go out and live life, and love life.