The Magic Of The Attractive

It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see. ~ Henry David Thoreau

Have you ever wondered why people who seem to have made it, are always good looking and successful? It just seems a bit unfair. However, the reason they are successful, is not because they are good looking but rather something different altogether.

There is an old joke, a man puts on his lawn, "free fridge". No one takes it. So he puts, “for sale for a hundred dollars”. Next day it's stolen.

Perception is so important, the only thing that separate us from success is really perception. With successful and good looking people, they have positioned themselves so that they can be desired, sought after, and seen.While it might seem that they are able to do that because they are attractive, it's actually because they have confidence. Whether their confidence comes from their looks or something else, this confidence, makes them puts themselves in positions for success.

If you believe you couldn't win a race you would most likely not run it, would you? Yes, while people might race for other reasons, most people race to win. Likewise, if people don't believe they can do things, they will not try. However, with attractive people, they put themselves in the spotlight, because they believe they are desired, and thus have a chance.

The reason people are popular and good looking is not mainly because they are good looking, but rather they believe that they are good looking and thus believe they are worth something. If someone does not believe they are good looking or worth anything they will not look after what they do not believe to have worth.

 You do not look after a garbage can because it is worthless. No one will steal a garbage can, and no one will shine a garbage can. However, if you have diamond, you put it on velvet. Ultimately, they are just both objects, the only difference is how people perceive it.

So when you look at someone who seems to be successful and attractive, know this, it's not really that they are attractive, but their belief that people wanted them. There are a lot of attractive people out there, but because they don't think themselves valuable, they don't look after themselves. Feeling this way, they don't look after themselves, so they don't look attractive. Their belief of themselves sabotage their looks and their success.

At the end of the day, there are many good looking people out there, but what separates them from people who seem to be good looking and successful, is the belief of how they perceive themselves. A lot of people could be successful and attractive, but they don't believe that they can.There is no magic in being good looking and successful. It's just a matter of the belief that fuels the actions and reactions in ourselves and others.