Simple As 3.14

Life is not always as what it seems. However, making the choice to see things simply as they are makes it easier. In this world, we like to complicate things, we even have shows or books that are really about complicating life, when things are simple. It’s like how we say things are complicated, when in fact, we know exactly what the issue is, but we don't want to talk about it. Making things sound more complicated as it really is.

You will find in most stories or plots, there is a villain and a hero or heroine who tries and stop the villain. Doing flips and tricks to stop them from their diabolical plan. While nothing wrong with that, in real life and not fiction or what we have made up in our minds, sometimes, you can just talk. You could just say,”Hey, are things alright?” Or,”How can I help.”And people are like, "Okay, lets talk."

 

To often, we have traded the complicated over simple because of our perception or fears, when in reality it is simple. Take for instance, how you ask people people what they want to do in life. Most people don’t know. They think it's complicated. However, every time you ask them what they like, they can already tell you what they like. Snap! Theirs there job, right there. Their whole career. Nothing complicated.

Or maybe it’s a relationship. Yes, they get messy, but people just want to be loved, their ideals on what love really is, might be messed up, but everything that happens in a relationship whether romantic or just friendship, is about a reason, a motivation. If you can see what they want, and what you want, things can go smoother.

If you break down life, it is very simple. The only reason things are complicated is because we are seeing too many options. If you see just how things are really as they are and what motivates people, it gets more simple. Find what you want and they want.

Don’t beat around the bush. See life simply as it is, you must get to the heart of the matter, look for people’s reason for doing things, what makes them tick. That is where you find the heart of things being complicated.